Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Experience With The University!

February started with a loud bang… As the hectic week started with PLP workshop, It gave me a break from the monotony of home office home and role reversed to Home –Resort –Home, as the mid week approached I started feeling sick of the food in the resort. As I yearned for amma’s curd rice and pickles , uppma, and rasam the week had already passed and I was back in the week-end den.

Cultural difference within the country cannot be more evident in this context then other. My friend being a Chinese, raised in North India with education from South qualifies herself to be epitome of cultural understanding.
As my friend called in and asked if I could accompany her for the University for Official Transcripts, I readily agreed to ease the language complexities which people face with the government bodies.
As we approached the university campus we were greeted by a guard who guided us to “The Stone Building” what they called. It read “Student Grievance Center”, the first thought that struck me on seeing the interiors of the office only reminded me the old movies which portrayed central jail in all glory. Coming back to senses and reminding my self I was in India’s Reputed University and not any central Jail was a reliving enough. As I scanned the place to check on the formalities and procedure I was lured to more confusing thoughts. Except a print copy pasted on a wooden separator ( which acted as a separating wall from one division to other) on the cost for various applications with hardly enough information was visible. To get a better understanding we approached the person with a grim face (it appeared to me as though I was taking the grievance). Thus began the conversation in the native language.
The jist of the entire conversation was I wanted to know more details on the process for filling an application for the official transcripts. While the representative just asked me to pay 180 RS per required transcripts in the Bank at the other corner of the road without sharing no further details in spite of using the probing technique in interviews!

As both me and my friend dashed just to be in time before the bank closed for transaction little did we realize we had to walk close to 1 km to reach the bank. As the February sun soared high up as the temperatures raised, my patience level dripped every step I took

The only conversation that filled the air between us was how backward we still are in the current era which dominates the software’s and applications. We were dazed that there is not a single web application format in the university website. Our conversations revolved on how bureaucratic we still are as a society.

As we reached the bank filled the formalities of manual transactions of which we have almost lost the ground on when the banks have opted for core banking and Internet and mobile banking is now the trend and style. We doodled a bit on the challan and submitted the copies while depositing the cash in the counter.
As we tracked our way back to the Stone Building, I was just wondering what more the day could have in store.
Then the Rep gave me a familiar smile this time, only that I had a curt smile to return back for having made me walk 2 kms in the treacherous sun!
As we submitted the challan we were asked to produce the photocopies of mark sheet with one set in a paper cover which we were advise to carry from some acquaintance . It was then our representative sparked out that one had to attach even the copy of degree certificate.

As I rushed to get the certificate photocopied checking with the students where the photocopy center was I was baffled to know that I had to go to some court complex for photocopies. As I walked past the vendors on the lane, selling groundnuts, mints and bananas, I was only wondering if I were in a University Campus or just another government organization. University without a Photo copy center was beyond me ability of imagination! As I conjectured the state and plight of the students around the area a sense of pity struck to those gullible.

I hurried my way past back to the Stone building just be in time before our officials took their long earned break for lunch. We worked our way together to put the copies in the covers and as my friend submitted the Challan copies and cover containing the most treasured mark sheets and Degree Certificate for the day, the good old representative shot back “ Where is the application form?” both of us were stunned for a moment with no words flowing and as our empty stomach made noise for resources to be supplied to all the back up energy were being utilized in running up and down the university lane! Rather quizzed by the question we exchanged perplexed stares at each other. Now this was the limit of my patience zone it had long crossed the negative line of control! With all temper I shot back “ Now what is this application about? Will you please let me know” Slowly but steadily the rep replied “you need to fill in an application and get it stamped and signed by your college authorities!” and beyond this not a word was said!
While I pondered over how else I could get the situation under control as the clock ticked close to 1:00 pm, I hastily took the application and helped my friend fill it, we dashed back to her college hoping that the Admin office would still be open. Thankfully for the security guards eye we still looked like young college girls, as we barged in to the Admin area we managed to get the application stamped and signed. We stopped on our way back for lunch discussions backtracked to all the events of the day.

We finally managed to submit the request for official transcripts for B.com while we have one more pending for the Master program which we target to complete early March.

There are far too many questions that hit my thoughts. We are supposed to the second largest country in terms of population and contribute to largest pool of IT and ITES operations. Infact Bangalore is called the silicon valley of India. I am perplexed at the rate at which our basic infrastructures and process are in place. In this experience of mine, the renowned university does not even have an option in there website where such basic transactions can be easily automated with little effort. We still run the grumpy grievance cells manned by people who assume the roles of gods’ moment they have a visitor, forgetting all basics of customer services approach. There is hardly any mention of various processes for such transactional operations for student in the website or any clear guidelines in the office;
We are on close standards for producing the best in class engineers with high talent output ratio, we talk a lot about core banking operations, still we stand in the long queues just to fill a challan. Do the agencies and institutions even realize that the coming generations are going to be highly tech savvy, those student which the university themselves has produced with high standard of education, to which they would cater to? When India is on high agenda for the next milestone to be crossed, add yet another feather to its culturally diverse hat. Our universities are still surviving in the era of last century of dark, dumpy grievance cells while the world itself has moved to another continuum of technology bound by the immensity of speed and time.
India no doubt is making its presence felt in this era of globalization but these ground realities do strike hard!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

The Journey.........

She pushed opened the majestic doors of the auditorium, there he saw her for the first time while he stood in the corner of the hallway with the group of boys. There was an instant flash in his heart and hit him hard enough. With all the chaos pervading he could barely concentrate on the talks and conversations, which was on. She scanned the auditorium with eyes, which spoke nothing but innocence; she looked around to join her group. She found her friends and then she was lost in her world of talks.
As they all waited for the program to begin he could barely lift his gaze of her, her smile, her laughter, her voice, her tone were the only senses which reverberated all through his soul and heart.

The program ended, a friend of hers took her around and then there they met. He was pleased to meet her, while there was a new feeling which shook him and captivated him, little did he express. Surely the cupid had struck!
He came in every morning, he always took the seat beside her, always felt her presence. They spoke of things known and unknown, happenings of the world and beyond ,they met everyday spoke everyday, argued their way as he got to know her better, more deeper the feelings got nurtured .A respect set out for her. Days passed, turned to months imbibed and nurtured the feelings of love, care and respect.
They always argued, agreed on few while they disagreed on many. Many a times egos dominated.
But She always cared for him and trusted, not realizing the inner meaning, she always felt light at heart and comfortable with him being around. Little did she realize! Her friends teased her for always arguing and still being around with him, she cared not.

One fine morning he called her and said he had something to share, as they met in the most unusual and crowded place he confessed his heart to her with heavy breathing and high hope he said " I love you dear". She fluttered like a confused butterfly, she didn’t expect this from him .she said a NO and walked away! They met everyday spoke and more often then not, argued considerably, still he had hopes high, he proposed for next 10,000 time they met and she kept pushing him away. Friends tried to convince she pushed them back; he tried to convince little did she consider.

Her only fear " We always argue, our wavelengths are a mismatch" was one thing she held high. Days rolled now to years and she kept saying no, every time she did, she wept to her heart, which yearned for him, for his care, for the love he showed. She realized it were these arguments and disagreements that had brought them closer to each other, respect follies in each other to accept things the way they are, appreciate difference in thoughts.
He backtracked and left her alone.

They now met once in a while, hardly spoke to one another eventually she now realized how it feels to miss him, his arguments, his love and care, respect, more importantly the way he treasured her.

A day dawned a group of friends set out on a picnic both of them were invited and agreed to join the group.
The journey was not conducive, egos ruled them. Little did they talk, hardly looked at each other still they were seated next to each other felt the presence.
Cool breeze set in, with a ting of warm day light they sat in a group by the side of the river and he confessed yet again in a whisper and she held his hand tight. While he reciprocated with a tighter grip!

Friends applauded and they set out to embark on a new journey in life.

Arguments continued, disagreements continued, still in their hearts they cared for the other, respected other, and yearned for more love! They realized relationships are not built on the moulds of ego but on that of love, care, campanionship and joy of being together and staying together.

This is an attempt to bring series of emotions . An attempt to write a simple short story.